Sorry… I know, I said the ‘C’ word!! But we do need to start thinking about it now. Over Christmas our routines may change, we may have more visitors, we bring strange things (trees!) into the house, we have presents (with who knows what inside…), we have different, and often more, food in the house.
All of this can be incredibly difficult for our dogs. Especially the young, the over excitable, the nervous, the elderly, the quiet….. even the most resilient, calm and even tempered dog can find all of these changes unsettling.
So what can we do now to prepare our dogs (and us) to have a calm, enjoyable and stress free Christmas? (in terms of the dog anyway… I can’t help with burnt turkeys!)
Cooking on Christmas Day can be really stressful. Timing the veg and the roasties, not burning the turkey, keeping the in-laws happy… the very last thing you need is a dog under your feet. Or even worse, counter surfing at every opportunity!
Think of it from our dog’s point of view though. Lots of lovely new tasty smells, food everywhere, people everywhere; it can be overwhelming and stressful for them too.
So make a start now. Decide where you’d like your dog when you’re cooking your Christmas meal (a bed in the corner of the kitchen, a different room, in their crate, behind a baby gate, in a puppy pen… what ever works best for you) and make it a really great place for them to be.
If this is your dog’s first Christmas with you, please don’t under estimate the strangeness for them of a tree appearing in the living room. Especially a tree covered in all sorts of exciting looking things. I’m sure that Sam thinks all his Christmases have come at once when he sees a tree covered in baubles! But a collie (or any other excited dog) trying to get a bauble off a Christmas tree could easily end in a huge disaster, not to mention some costly vet bills.
Depending on your situation you could…
It can be too much for some dogs to understand what the tree is and that it’s out of bounds. You can literally make the tree a non-issue, by doing one (or some) of the above. With everything else that you have going on it can be so worth it.
Having more people around can be really difficult for some dogs. You could get them used to it now by thinking about where you’d like them to be when people arrive and get them used to settling in that place. Often with decorations, trees, presents etc. the layout of our living rooms change slightly, changing that now if it will affect your dog will really help them.
Every time you have someone over take the time to practice the behaviours that you do want from your dog around visitors. Remember, the biggest part of this is often preventing the behaviours that you don’t want. To help with this you can
Thinking ahead is key. Help your dog to succeed by thinking through how Christmas may change their daily routine. Some things to think about…
And always remember, that your dog may find it difficult. If they’re ‘playing up’, they’re not doing it to give you a hard time. It’s far more likely to be because they are having a hard time.
It’s our job to help them feel safe and comfortable. To show them what we’d like them to do. To support them when they’re struggling.
We know that Christmas can put extra pressure on us at the best of times… help yourself and your dog, by taking the time to get ready now.